{"id":1998,"date":"2021-02-23T23:21:27","date_gmt":"2021-02-23T23:21:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lastandardnewspaper.com\/staging\/news\/lifestyle\/ghettoff-in-downtown-inglewood\/"},"modified":"2021-02-23T23:21:27","modified_gmt":"2021-02-23T23:21:27","slug":"ghettoff-in-downtown-inglewood","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lastandardnewspaper.com\/staging\/news\/lifestyle\/ghettoff-in-downtown-inglewood\/","title":{"rendered":"Ghettoff in downtown Inglewood"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">The Inglewood adult boutique specializes in promoting sexual health and well-being while improving communication between partners.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<figure><a href=\"https:\/\/www.gofundme.com\/f\/support-blackowned-los-angeles-standard-newspaper\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/lastandardnewspaper.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/Support_Standard_web.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"296\" \/><\/a><figcaption><em><strong>The L.A. Standard Newspaper needs your support so that we can continue to create positive stories about Black communities. -Jason Douglas Lewis, Owner\/Publisher<\/strong><\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure>&nbsp;<\/figure>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">By Megan Reed<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Sexual health is a taboo topic, but it&rsquo;s something that is important to intimate relationships.&nbsp; Many people do not speak about their feelings or desires, even with their partners.&nbsp; This can have a negative impact on a relationship.&nbsp; Another issue is that some people may not know how to be pleased, making it difficult to express their feelings to their partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&ldquo;Intimacy is something that we all need, whether it&rsquo;s solo play or couples play,&rdquo; said Nefertiti Mitchell, founder and CEO of Ghettoff, an adult boutique store in Inglewood that specializes in sexual health and wellness products.&nbsp; The store sells lingerie, lubricant, adult toys, and other items to create a heightened sexual experience.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Privacy is very important to Mitchell and her clients, so she sees customers by appointment only.&nbsp; Customers do not have to worry about bumping into people that they know in the shop.&nbsp; Mitchell spends time with each customer, discussing sexual health so that she can help the customers pick out products that can work for them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" size-full wp-image-1997\" src=\"https:\/\/lastandardnewspaper.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/CX3A8239n_web.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lastandardnewspaper.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/CX3A8239n_web.jpg 600w, https:\/\/lastandardnewspaper.com\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/CX3A8239n_web-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&ldquo;We&rsquo;re going to sit down, have some wine and pastries, and talk,&rdquo; Mitchell said.&nbsp; &ldquo;And then after that we&rsquo;re going to go to the showroom and find some items that are just for you.&nbsp; I need you to be comfortable.&nbsp; You don&rsquo;t have to worry about anybody else coming in here.&nbsp; I free up enough time for you to talk about you.&nbsp; And it&rsquo;s an exclusive experience. &rdquo;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">When people learn their own body and what pleases them, it helps them communicate that with their partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&ldquo;We rely on our partner to please us, but many people don&rsquo;t know how to please themselves,&rdquo; Mitchell said.&nbsp; &ldquo;It starts with yourself.&nbsp; So let&rsquo;s start by knowing who you are and what you like.&nbsp; Then you can communicate to your partner about those things.&nbsp; Then there&rsquo;s a better bond.&nbsp; And even if you&rsquo;re not with a partner, you still need to know what you like so that when you do get with a partner, you can tell your partner what you like.&nbsp; It makes relationships so much smoother.&rdquo;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Some people may be intimidated by sex toys, and others may steer clear of them because it&rsquo;s viewed as taboo.&nbsp; Mitchell said that many people are unaware of how these toys can improve sexual health.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&ldquo;It opens up doors that you probably didn&rsquo;t even know about,&rdquo; Mitchell said.&nbsp; &ldquo;I&rsquo;ve heard that some people don&rsquo;t know where certain things are on their body, such as g-spots and things like that.&nbsp; These toys will help you understand your body and how your body works.&nbsp; My goal is to educate you about what&rsquo;s out there, and give you options.&rdquo;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Many people in relationships drift apart when they do not have a healthy sexual relationship.&nbsp; Mitchell has seen her products and knowledge help people improve their overall relationship. &nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&ldquo;For me, it&rsquo;s exciting to reconnect them,&rdquo; she said.&nbsp; &ldquo;The greatest thing is to figure out the connection and reunite people.&nbsp; And also to explore.&nbsp; People can&rsquo;t just keep up with the same norm.&nbsp; They should see what&rsquo;s out there.&rdquo;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Before the COVID-19 pandemic, Mitchell would host events and meet with large groups in her shop.&nbsp;&nbsp; During the pandemic she has hosted smaller groups, couples, and individuals. &nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Mitchell has created a subscription box that is sent to customers monthly.&nbsp; The items in the box are based on a survey that the customer takes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&ldquo;When it comes to your doorstep, you know what time it is,&rdquo; she said.&nbsp; &ldquo;It&rsquo;s going to be that date night.&nbsp; The only thing I ask people is that they be opened-minded to everything that&rsquo;s in that box.&rdquo;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Ghettoff is located at 304 E. Manchester Boulevard, just east of Market Street.&nbsp; Contact them to set an appointment at (424) 800-2331, or contactus@ghettoff.com<a href=\"mailto:contactus@ghettoff.com.\">.<\/a>&nbsp; Visit their website at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ghettoff.com\" target=\"_blank\">www.ghettoff.com<\/a> and follow them on social media.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">The Inglewood adult boutique specializes in promoting sexual health and well-being while improving communication between partners.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":466,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[55],"tags":[1941,1942,169,170,93,168,167,161,1940,218,156,157,75,135,163,162,1943,1944,102,158,160,159],"class_list":["post-1998","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle","tag-adult-boutique","tag-adult-toys","tag-african-american","tag-african-american-newspaper","tag-baldwin-hills","tag-black-newspaper","tag-community-newspaper","tag-crenshaw","tag-ghettoff","tag-inglewood","tag-ladera-heights","tag-leimert-park","tag-los-angeles","tag-los-angeles-standard-newspaper","tag-mid-city","tag-park-mesa-heights","tag-sex","tag-sexual-health","tag-south-los-angeles","tag-view-park","tag-west-adams","tag-windsor-hills"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lastandardnewspaper.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1998","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lastandardnewspaper.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lastandardnewspaper.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lastandardnewspaper.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lastandardnewspaper.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1998"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lastandardnewspaper.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1998\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lastandardnewspaper.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/466"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lastandardnewspaper.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1998"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lastandardnewspaper.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1998"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lastandardnewspaper.com\/staging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1998"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}